ScorpioMoon
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 10
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Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 10:21 pm Post subject: How can I make this easier (relationship spell)? |
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Me and my boyfriend are working through some issues. I've been told by psychics that he is my "twin" and our harmonics are extremely good. BUT with Saturn transiting our composite descendant we're having to face some issues that we MUST get through. We've even started going to counselling. There is love, but we both have deeply ingrained patterns (most likely from childhood) that affect our individual abilities to successfully be in a relationship (not just with each other but, I suspect, with anyone). I find it easier to acknowledge these things within myself and to work with it to make positive changes, but part of his pattern is to have things his own way, as though he expects me to make all the changes to accommodate him. But this is not the nature of a Saturn transit to a COMPOSITE chart... it's about both people.
So I'm wondering if there is a way that I can influence things to become easier, through energy, magick, etc? I'm wary about manipulating him, but if there is a way to get him to be more open to what's really going on and to allow an easier process in all of this, then I would love any energetic/magickal advice.
So far, I've sent good energy and burned white candles for healing the relationship, and I've got a few feng shui things (a crystal mobile in a butterfly shape - symbolising two halves of the twin united, rose quartz and other crystals, photo of us, a plant which I water regularly) in the appropriate corner of our room. What else can I do?
Thank you! |
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