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princesspower48 · Joined: 04 Oct 2008 Posts: 5

I have 2 deaf adult children, and I just do not know how to help them out of this depression they are in of just living to wake and to sleep. I want them to live normal lives with a future of love family job. They see no future for them selves. my son said he was just waiting to die to start over. I do not understand this. Please help me, if you can see a wonderful furture for them maybe I can get themon the right path some how?

cherone · Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 256 Location: Isle of Wight uk

Hi princess

I will try my best to help in anyway that I can. I do know how hard it is for people that are deaf to live in this world of the hearing. I work at a home for the deaf. I also have a neighbour that is deaf and many years ago I worked with a lady that was deaf and speechless.
I do not see them as deaf people, I see them as who they are, I love them for their personnalities and the things that do, just like I do for people who can hear.
All of them are just like you and me, they do get depressed, they are human beings with a difference, they cant hear. It doesnt mean that they cant do things or that they cant have conversations or work or find love and have children of their own.
It may appear harder for them, becuase they feel they have a disability which holds them back. They feel they will be rejected by the people outside of their world, they find it hard to love themselves and becuase of this they feel that no one could possibly love them, they can be angery about their deafness.
It doesnt have to be this way, all of the deaf people that I know have or did have work and families of their own.
My nieghbour for instance works as a builder, he was married and had children, he now has a new girlfriend and he is happier than i have ever seen him.
The lady that i used to work with in a big laundry, was married with children for 50 years, she was happy and content.
Many of the people I work with now have had wives or husbands and children and had jobs.
It may not of always been easy for them, just like a lot of things are not easy for us hearing people. They are people first, deafness after.
The biggest thing that i have learned about deaf people is that they find it really hard to express themselves, they dont always like to express how they are feeling to anyone including there families, becuase many of them have quilt, quilt over being deaf and quilt that they have been a burden to their parents, quilt becuase they have been born this way. They always seem to be asking why? why they had to be born deaf? And the problem is there are no real answers.
When you look at others who can hear you find that many also have all these feelings about other things, it is easier for them to express their feelings, it may seem easier to help them. But I think it is the same with every one, there are not always answers as to why, deaf or not.
You may think I am rambling on, i am tring to make a piont that whether deaf or not you come first, you count, you are you and you have the right to be happy and part of this world. Deafness is not a disablity if you choose it not to be.
You as a mother know this. You love your children. just like i love my mine. we want our children to be happy and when they are not we want to help them be happy in themselves and with the world and other people.
Talk to them, love them ask them to help you understand them.

I cannot tell if you have two boys or one boy and one girl. As one of your children comes across as having a much softer nature than the other, a more passive side to them than the other one. This one i feel is quite sepitable to the other ones feelings and when the other one is angry or depressed this one also feels the same. it is almost like being to close to someone and knowing when there is something wrong and letting their feelings affect you, if you know what i mean.I feel that this one gets over things much easier than the other, this one would be more willing to get out into the world, but would feel quilty if they did as they would fell like they would be leaving the other one behind.I beleive that this one will move forward if the other gets some help, For some reason I see a little girl with blue eyes and really blonde hair, if this is not one of your children then it could be in the future for this child of yours.
The other one is more prone to depressive states than the other, he has a real problem with being deaf and does not really want people to know that he cant hear, thus finding it harder to be part of this world and try to live a normal life. I feel that he may need to see a proffessional to help him cope with his feelings.Talk to him and see if you can get him to see a doctor, i know he might not want to but, if my son had come to the doctors willingly years ago he may not be where he is now. I cant go into much detail but these days he wishes that he gone to see a doctor when he thought he didnt need to.He knows now that it would of helped him.This one has hidden talent, and I think it is to do with drawing, but i cannot see if it with pictures or with some like architec, as i see graphs or plans to buildings.
I am sorry Princess but i am very tired now and will have stop. if you have anything to ask me about this please do.
i hope this helps you and your children. Let them read it and if they wish to talk to me they can eigther do it themselves on here or do it through you on here. using this post.
Loads of love to you all, and i am sending love and healing to the three of you. X

princesspower48 · Joined: 04 Oct 2008 Posts: 5

I have a daughter and son, My daughter was seing someone but she said it didn't work out and couldn't find another doctor that would provide an interpeter. Their father died when they was young, so it has just been the 3 of us. I have always told them that they could do anything they want to do, if they are willing to do the work to get what they want. My daughter was in a relationship for 4 years but he left her for a hearing girl even tho he was deaf. My son was doing fine until this happen to her. We are very close family, but I have tried to back off so that they do not need me so much. I know they need to get alone in this hearing world and I can't always be here for them. I still make calls for them when its needed. They have relied on me so much as their interperter or in other ways. I tell my daughter she will find love again, but she looks at me and says you didn't. Their father was my soul mate and it is sad that we didn't get to be together for very long in this life, but maybe we can make up for it in the next life. If you can see a nice future for them, Please let me know.

Thank you for your message.

cherone · Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 256 Location: Isle of Wight uk

Hi princess

i will pull some cards out for them in a day or too, to see what they come up with.

cherie

cherone · Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 256 Location: Isle of Wight uk

Hi princess

I am using the angel harmony cards for your duaghter.
This is your daughters reading

card one
the sacred lotus flower

The first thing i see in this card is corgi dog like what the queen of england has.At the back of the dog is a man sitting on seat that you find at a shopping centre. i do not know if you ever had a dog simular to this or whether spirit is tring to get her to pay attention to her feelings and try to come to an understanding of them. There is sorrow, anger and happiness mixed up in the dogs expression. Which ever it is i feel that she needs to come to terms with some of the hurts that she has experienced so far on her journey of life. The man at the back seems to be a man in spirit, who is sitting watching over her, he is a patient man with a lot of love in his heart. Fairly youngish, though face can be seen.
i also see three people in this card, two young people somewhere in there twenties or very early thirties, one boy and one girl. The boy stands out the most and seems to be the more dominant one, maybe he appeared to get more attention than her and she would sit back sometimes and let him.Though if i go by the feel that i am getting, she often felt left out, even though she wasnt, she was loved just as much but may have like she had to wait longer for the hugs and attention that she needed becuase the boy would not wait and was so much more demanding. A lady is by them though she seems small in comparison, as though she sometimes got so worn out with the needs of the boy that she used to forget about looking after herself and thinking of her needs.By the side of the three people is the sun and the love that beams out of it is unbeleavable, so strong and yet so gentle.beyond the sun is a figure of another woman who is in spirit, she seems to be so proud of the three people, all the time sending them love and encouragement. Whether they feel it or not, so much healing is needed for them, this is what she is doing sending love and healing.
I see a circle of people, these may be friends of hers or them of been her friends at some piont, I am being told that she needs to contact her old friends and get back companionship,especailly with one that she considered her best friend.

i keep hearing the name sarah being called, i dont know if you or your daughter is this name or if she knows or knew or will meet someone called sarah,But sarah is or is going to be a big part of your daughters life. she is a very beautiful person that is so full of love and freindship that it is making me fill with tears. Look out for her she is truely a very special person.

secound card
Angel of libra

This card is telling me that at this present moment your daughter is avioding any situation that can cuase her any emotional hurts, she feels that if she does not go out and live a normal life she will not get hurt, this will not work for she is hurting herself more by keeping away from situations than going out there and experiencing everything. life is full of good and bad, both have there uses, both teach you about things that you do and dont want in life. both teach you to learn to cope with other situations that arise that are simular.
she can try balancing her emotions, writting down all the things that made or make her happy and all the things that made or make her sad, pick which one of the happy memories makes her feel so vey good and when she feels sad at any time, jump from the sad memoery to the happy one. This will give the feel good factor almost straight away and after a lot of practice she will come to see that hurtful things can always be over come by the good and happy things. It wont be long before she is on a straight road to heal her heart and find a new road to take that will bring her many joys and laughter filled days.

The third card
the tau tree of life

your daughter has come such a long way in this life and the card is telling her than it is not over yet, she has further to go, pastures at the moment may seem rather dark but in the near future they will get greener and more light, with happy times to come, she seems to met people that she will get on really well with and i am not sure when it cuold be one year or within the next two years that she will meet a man who will fall in love with her beautiful spirit. I beleive that he will be a man who can hear.
Again i see a little girl with blonde hair connected with your daughter.

the last card is melchisadec

This card is saying that your daughter will have her dreams come true in the future, she will meet a man and get married, she will have at least one child, i cannot at this time see if there are more children in her life. I see her letting go of the family ties and consentrating on herself and her own needs, which are her rights as a human being. I also see her having too jobs, one i think may well be in the clothes trade, working in a designer clothes shop. I have come to this by the waves of beautiful materails that i see flowing in theis card, her other job maybe as a working mother.

I hope this reading helps you in some way.
I am sure that your daughter will pull herself out of any rut that she has got herself in and move on to happiness and peace.

love cherie

cherone · Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 256 Location: Isle of Wight uk

hi princess

I have choosen the healing with angel cards for your sons reading.

first card
Freedom

the first thing that i see in this card is a person that has choosen to trap themself in a state of self pity, he tends to keep every one that he can at arms length instead of welcoming people into his life. He is setting his own sentence to misery by allowing his negative thoughts to keep him from living a life full of joy and happiness. Whether he chooses to believe it or not he has a lot of people round him that love and care about him deeply, he needs to let down his sheilds and allow people to come into his zone space and bring him friendships and love. He needs to change his attitude towards himself, he needs to love himself for who he is and what he can do. He needs to choose to think possitive and bring things into his life that will serve him well and for the best.
This card is all about choosing to be free of emotions that are holding him back and shutting him of from his true portentail.
That may sound a little hard in words but i do have to say what i read in the cards and not change them to what people really want to hear.
As i am typing i feel a lot of anger and frostration in this man, almost like i have a constant frown that wont go away even when i raise my eye brows.

Secound card
Study

this card is telling me that he needs to take time and study himself and see how his actions and words affect other people as well as himself. He needs to delve deep into his inner most thoughts and see all the good pionts that he has. Any good pionts should be consentrated on to make them stand out so that he shines when he is with other people, and i do believe that he has a wonderful shine to him when he really wants to.
Also i see him finding his vocation in life, studing in an academic way, he may study maths and number and agian i see drawings simular to graphs, i amy be wrong but i feel that if he works hard he very well may work as an architec or designing peoples kitchens or rooms in their houses.

Card three
Healing

I do feel that he may have to go and recieve some healing eigther from a doctor or from a natural healer such as a rieki healer or some form of complimentary healing. Just to help him get started, and then for him to self heal. Using his own power of the life forse and his own mind of possitive thinking. i see a young woman that comes into his life that we help him tremendously, I feel this may be with in the next six months. she will become a good friend and companion.

Last card
Blessings

this is more of a spirit card and it is saying that spirit and the angels are forever with him, no matter whether he can feel them or not.He can have what ever he wishes for if only he would ask for it. I see him moving in the future to a place that is quiet and peaceful where he will feel more at home that he ever has done before and where he can be more content with himself. And believe he will move with a person that becomes a best friend.
I will say that he needs to look out for bell, this bell will be in an unusaul place, somewhere where you wouldnt expect a bell to be. A meeting of someone will take place near this bell and his life will start to change for the better from there on.

hope this helps

love and hugs
cherie

princesspower48 · Joined: 04 Oct 2008 Posts: 5

Thank you for the readings for my children. I'm sorry I couldn't respond until now because my computer was down. I f you could do a reading for me, I would like that so much. Again thank you so much for the reading! you was right on in the readings for them about how much time my son has took my time away from my daughter. she has always been my hero and life line to hold to when times was hard, she keeps me strong. I know when in time, she will be strong and find her way in life.

When you have the time could you please do a reading for me?

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