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sweetmari101 · Joined: 13 Jun 2006 Posts: 27 Location: VA

I have a few questions I would like to present for a reading.
I am in a current happy and wonderful relationship with a man I have been dating for 3 yrs going to 4. We are engaged and planned to marry next december. I would like to know the outcome of our love and if it will sustain.

we have received spiritual advice that we were once lovers and married in a past life. perhaps that is why our relationship is so sustaining and lasting.

now we both have pasts. He has had a lot of women he has been with, but few gf's. I am the longest relationship he has had. And I myself have been in 1 painful relationship that I cannot let go. In total I have been in 3 relationships before his, but only one has left me in a huge amount of pain that I cannot get over. It haunts my relationship because i often worry my current love will do the things this past ex bf has done.

for some reason i believe making peace would heal this past. but im afraid it will make things worst if it goes wrong. please please advise me.
i want to live a life of complete peace...to finally not have these thoughts of pain cross my mind.

please help me with a reading
thanks,

cherone · Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 256 Location: Isle of Wight uk

hi sweetmari101

I am not going to use any cards

first i will say that you really dont have anything to worry about with this the man that you are with now, he will never do what your ex did to you. I do know that this is hard as what you went through hurt you in many ways and there may always be in the back of your mind a trust issue with any guy. it is very difficult to let go the past especailly relationships that hurt so much. I am tring to be discrete and not let myself put to much detail into this reading as it on a public forum.
Sometimes you cannot go back to the person and make amends it can in some cases open up an invition to let them back into your life and i dont think that this is what you would wish to do.
You can how ever make peace in your on mind and soul. it is just as hard as speaking to the person in person.

sit and relax
breath nice and easy breaths until you feel all the tension go out of your body
after a while visualize the person coming towards you
take note of how you are feeling if you feel stressed or to upset to let them get close just visualise them turning away from you

do that little exercise as many times as you like until you feel comfortable with the person coming so close to you that you could touch them.

once this is done open up a conversation with them and start to talk through what happened in your past relationship

remember that when it gets to much for you , you can just turn away and go bck agian when you are ready.

once you have done this over and over again you will then be able to forgive the person if nessary and also forgive yourself, this bit is important, forgiveness of yourself.

it doesnt matter how long you take to do this it can take days weeks or months to release those emotions you have left in in.

it is hard and not easy as these emtions are something that you want out of your way but at the same time dont want them to come fully to the surface becuase of the pain they cuase. beleive i know i have do this and it very emtional but you do feel better once you have resolved it all.

you do have to talk more to your current partner on what happened to you in the past, this will bring you both more understanding of each other and why you act the way you do at times.

hope this helps you, if you need any more help and i can help i will

all the best to you

love cherie

sweetmari101 · Joined: 13 Jun 2006 Posts: 27 Location: VA

thank you so much for this advice!

cherone · Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 256 Location: Isle of Wight uk

your welcome

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