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Joined: 14 Feb 2007 Posts: 500
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 9:30 pm Post subject: Best course of action to take re my ex (or none at all?) |
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Hi there, I'm not sure if anyone still does psychic readings here but I have a question that I seem to be unable to answer for myself.
I have a situation where my ex-partner is still a good friend. We were together for several years and the friendship connection is strong. However I get the feeling he is still in love with me - I can't return the feelings though, although I do care about him. When we broke up he asked me to still be around, and so I stayed around as a close friend. Personally I didn't want to break the friendship bond, so still being around served my own needs as well. He's dated since then, but still no close romantic relationship with anyone. I worry that he hasn't moved on from me to the point where can stop being jealous of my current partner and stop feeling hurt that I am with someone else. Adding to all of this is the fact that we ALL share a house at the moment. I know, I know... My current partner and I are making moves to find somewhere else to live right now.
All in all, I want ALL THREE OF US to be happy. Preferably my ex being happy without clinging to something that won't happen, and me and my current partner being happy together.
So I have a few questions rolled into one: Should we move out and I minimise contact with my ex, or should I remain close friends with him, or should we stay living where we are because there might be a good reason why we've all ended up living in the same house, etc? Does my ex still want me back, and will he always want me back whether I'm around or not? In short, what is the best course of action to take?
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