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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 3:59 am Post subject: What truly happened? |
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Hi Libra68,
Thanks so much again for your reading regarding my pinched nerve. I think that things are now on track with that!
This time, I need to get an answer about something that just happened. I was looking up something for my bf on the computer and he was behind me looking too, and he got annoyed because I scrolled too fast, so he took the mouse. Thing is, that before he took the mouse it felt like he punched me on the arm - which upset me. He says that he bumped into me by accident but I don't believe him. What really happened, and what should I now do? If he did really punch me on the arm, does this mean he will turn physically abusive? I don't know if my thoughts are getting ahead of me.
Thank you,
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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 4:20 am Post subject: |
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Also if he did punch me on the arm because of the scrolling, what is his damn problem? I'm angry now. |
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Libra68
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 135 Location: Florida
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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 6:56 am Post subject: |
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Here it is all in a nut shell. He did NOT punch you. He went for the mouse and accidentally jammed you with his elbow. The feeling you have does not necessorliy mean he WILL turn psycial- it is you felt violated-that is where the "I'm pissed" mode entered. You felt violated because your "personal space" was entered unawaringly. Best thing to do is discuss the event lightly and explain to him you do not like it when things are grabbed from you that is within a certain circular range.
You and your boyfriend get on like two peas in a pod- calling off your relationship due to misunderstanding is not the answer-talking about what bothers you or bothers him is the answer. Yes there are ups and downs but this is common with everyone. In 2 days--he and you will return a calm atmosphere.  |
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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 7:52 am Post subject: |
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Ok, thank you! That clarifies things for me. Things are calmer now and I guess I don't have think over and over it now, wondering if he did punch me or not. Thanks again!  |
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Libra68
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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 3:11 pm Post subject: |
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any time and Happy Halloween!!!!!!!!  |
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Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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Same to you!  |
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