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How do you let go?


 
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Merlin007



Joined: 31 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 3:41 am    Post subject: How do you let go? Reply with quote

I am confused. Once I have made a statement or wish known to the universe, how do you let go but yet keep refining the goal. Doesn't revisiting the goal or wish keep it from manifesting?

For example, I meditate twice a day. After I have gone to my center, I will vsualize that which I wish to occur and will spend a few minutes trying to make my visualization as real as possible. You know adding more detail, but does this hamper the manifestation of my wish?

And if I go through my day, trying to live as if my wish were already a reality, does that thinking about it keep it from happening?

Thanks
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RemoteControl



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 4:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

first redefine the goal so it meets all your needs

then focus or whatever to amplify that energy

then forget about it, remove your negative thoughts, or concentrate on something else
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Merlin007



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 5:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Should I then make the wish known and then completely forget about it not even when I go into my medication periods?

Just maintain a positive atitude that it will occur?

This is extremely hard for me, because like so many people, I want to force it to happen, RIGHT NOW! and subconsciously I figure that the more energy I put into making it more real, then the faster it will appear.

Thanks for your assistance. I really do aprecate it. I need some financial help as soon as possible and nothing seems to be going quite right so anything anyone can say to help put me on the right track, well, I am all ears.
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Merlin007



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 5:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

In fact in some techniques, they recommend writing the wish down 10 or 20 times a day and then doing an oral affirmation many times a day.

It is this type of thing that confuses me.

Again, thanks for your help.
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Red_Rover



Joined: 13 Feb 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 1:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Again, I think it is different for everybody. You have to just find what works for you.

For me, my "desires" are so strong that I already have more than enough internal energy for them. So it's important for me to "set it and forget it". I live in my head a lot, so my conscious mind keeps running all the time. That's the thing that stops the manifestation, b/c my conscious mind interferes- "what if it doesn't happen? How can I get it to happen? What should I do now?, etc etc"

I just need to totally forget it in any way possible. One way to forget is to live right now as if everything is already 100% how I want it. Nothing to do- nothing to change.

Another way is to just not care that much. You are already perfect, you are already at the pinnacle. You can't get any better than what you are by acquiring objects, money, or relationships. So really, what does it matter if this desire manifests or not?

Just do what presents itself at the moment. I mean, don't lay in bed all day, that sort of thing. But don't do anything to actually make it happen, or change anything.

If you do that, you're acknowledging that there IS something to change- you're making it real. When you fight it, it just gets more real. When you NEED it to feel OK, you're just going to attract more lack and need.

Just forgetting it altogether means I hand it over to my subconscious mind to make it manifest. My job is to already live, feel and think as though everything's perfect. I feel OK, I feel content.

So when it does manifest, I am pleasantly surprised in the way it happens. But I am not shocked, b/c I knew it was already real.

At the same time, if it never happens, it shouldn't phase me, b/c I'm already living in a reality where everything is perfect.

Does that help at all?
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RemoteControl



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 1:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Merlin007 wrote:
Should I then make the wish known and then completely forget about it not even when I go into my medication periods?

Just maintain a positive atitude that it will occur?

This is extremely hard for me, because like so many people, I want to force it to happen, RIGHT NOW! and subconsciously I figure that the more energy I put into making it more real, then the faster it will appear.

Thanks for your assistance. I really do aprecate it. I need some financial help as soon as possible and nothing seems to be going quite right so anything anyone can say to help put me on the right track, well, I am all ears.

A positive attitude does not really matter. I'm sure you can remember many instances when you had a negative attitude and something good happened anyway. So just forget about it, focus on something else. Write it out 100 times, then forget about it. Do anything to get your mind off it.
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Merlin007



Joined: 31 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 4:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks to both you Remote and Red_Rover. This really helps. I feel a lot better and really more confidant.
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Red_Rover



Joined: 13 Feb 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 12:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I really agree with Remote Control here. We've been taught to always be focused on positive thinking...to me, that backfires. Here's why:

Positive thinking means you are thinking "Yes, it WILL happen." Or, "Everything's GOING to be OK." While these things aren't bad in themselves, they keep your mind focused on the future. You're basically telling your subconscious, "Hey, things suck right now, but somehow they'll work out."

And that's what you'll attract. A future, more waiting, things sucking right now, etc.

You need to be confident things are perfect RIGHT NOW. That's why it's important to just forget about what you're manifesting. B/c right now, AS IS, things are great. Whether something manifests or not is of no consequence. The manifestation can't help or hurt you. It's already perfect right now!

Whatever you can do to forget about it is what to do. For some people, positive thinking does work b/c they are so confident it will manifest, they simply forget about it. But it's the FORGETTING that draws the new "reality," not the positive thinking.

FOr others, they just totally distract themselves by getting busy with other stuff so their conscious mind has no chance to get in the way.

For others, they can just "not care" at all about the manifestation, so they easily forget about it. They can "not care" b/c the manifestation is just irrelevant to their happiness and peace of mind.

The most basic thing is to quiet the chatter of your conscious mind somehow. B/c for most of us, it just gets in the way. It just is aware that there's something you want and don't have. It makes you doubt, it makes you try to figure things out, strategize, etc. All those things just keep confirming that you're in a reality that you don't prefer, and you need to get out of it.

When you really realize that all is really perfect right now, you realize that even if you get exactly the manifestation you want, it's not going to suddenly make things better or make you happy. You'll just move on to the next thing, or you'll start worrying you'll lose it.

You have to be in a place where things and people and situations can come and go, and it doesn't affect your contentment either way.

Of course I'm no guru- I'm just saying the stuff that makes sense to me and works for me.

This stuff is different for everyone so you'll just have to play around and see what "clicks" for you.
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Merlin007



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 5:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you. That really does make sense and in my particular case, the act of positive thinking has never been of any help to me. As I think back on it, what you say, really has been the case for me, when trying to use positive thinking, in the background really is the thought that things suck right now.

In all texts I have ever read the predominant theme, which I have a hard time doing, is to let go and let God, i.e. forget about it. I keep wanting to have my hands on everything and controlling the outcome.

So that is really to be my quest isn't it? - to give up trying to control things.

What a task I have in front of me. Smile
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Red_Rover



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 1:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey Merlin,

Take a look around this site: http://fieldcenter.org/

I've found it to be very helpful. Particularly the articles under the Library section.

There's also a "Field Center Database" where you can do a search for different words and tons of information comes up.
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Zygos



Joined: 16 Aug 2005
Posts: 207

PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Merlin007 wrote:
Should I then make the wish known and then completely forget about it not even when I go into my medication periods?

Just maintain a positive atitude that it will occur?

This is extremely hard for me, because like so many people, I want to force it to happen, RIGHT NOW! and subconsciously I figure that the more energy I put into making it more real, then the faster it will appear.


This would be in defintion of not letting go.

Letting go means dealing with all your own issues, around an issue, and letting everything including the responcibility of it occuring or not to the heavens above.

Its not easy. But that is a nessesity when it comes to manifestation.

Zygos
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areiki_lady



Joined: 29 Sep 2006
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 12:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Red_Rover wrote:
I really agree with Remote Control here.

You need to be confident things are perfect RIGHT NOW. That's why it's important to just forget about what you're manifesting. B/c right now, AS IS, things are great. Whether something manifests or not is of no consequence. The manifestation can't help or hurt you. It's already perfect right now!

Whatever you can do to forget about it is what to do. For some people, positive thinking does work b/c they are so confident it will manifest, they simply forget about it. But it's the FORGETTING that draws the new "reality," not the positive thinking.

......................

The most basic thing is to quiet the chatter of your conscious mind somehow. B/c for most of us, it just gets in the way. It just is aware that there's something you want and don't have. It makes you doubt, it makes you try to figure things out, strategize, etc. All those things just keep confirming that you're in a reality that you don't prefer, and you need to get out of it.

When you really realize that all is really perfect right now, you realize that even if you get exactly the manifestation you want, it's not going to suddenly make things better or make you happy. You'll just move on to the next thing, or you'll start worrying you'll lose it.

You have to be in a place where things and people and situations can come and go, and it doesn't affect your contentment either way.



This stuff is different for everyone so you'll just have to play around and see what "clicks" for you.


very beautifully said.
This is also mentioned in the book The Titus Concept: Money for My Best and Highest Good: Books: Al Diaz by Al Diaz. http://www.theonlyoption.net/

For our best and highest good always

A_Reik_lady
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