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mooninmygarden
Joined: 29 Oct 2005
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 Posted: Sat Oct 29, 2005 5:58 am Post subject: I just want it to stop
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Okay, so my SO and I are getting married on Samhain. We have been together for over 6yrs, and have a 1yo dd. The problem is his ex. They were only together for 6mo, but she is obsessed and always seems to track him down. I sense he is genuine and does not want her around, I even seen him come running away from one of her attempts at reconciliation. She is pagan as well, my SO is not, he lives in denial of his abilities. At times I can sense her trying to lure him back, though I think we are stronger than any energies she sends out, but I feel she will come out of the woodwork again and again and I just want to be rid of her! Why won't she give it up?
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ladyamericaneagle
Joined: 30 Jul 2005
Posts: 148
Location: charlotte nc usa
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Posted: Sat Oct 29, 2005 9:08 am Post subject:
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The only way you can get it to stop is to file stalking charges and he has to be the one that does it not you. That will be the only way you can get her to stop. Trust me I speak from experience on this myself.
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Candace
Joined: 12 Oct 2005
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 1:01 pm Post subject:
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Wow, she doesn't even respect that you have a child together. That's pretty intense. Maybe you can visualize her being swept off her feet by someone she's totally in love with. Then she'll be too busy to bother you!
If your SO won't do anything about it, I would guess you can't make him. That's got to be pretty frustrating, that he won't stand up to her and, by lack of action, is actually not standing up for you or your relationship. 
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 9:26 pm Post subject:
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She's obssesed. Probably an attachment disorder brought on by some period in her life where she was somehow powerless (overly teased or abused) or missed something in her life (like her father). Your SO made her feel like she wasn't "incomplete" or insecure and thus a negative attachment to you SO was made. The mundane approach is to get a restraining order. If you can justify that your son is anyway in danger it doesn't matter if your SO does anything. The courts should uphold a restraining order. He probably feels sorry for her or maybe that he let down baddly maybe even still has a guilt about it.
The magickal approach in my opinion isn't deffensive or prtective, but healing. Pray for this woman to find help and deal with the issues that made her so attached to your SO. Psychological help is really the only thing that could garuntee she'll leave him alone.
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