Joined: 03 Sep 2012
|Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 12:58 am Post subject: Other peoples Energy
I have a few questions on other people's energy and how it can affect you. I have been a pretty sensitive person my entire life and am easily affected by peoples emotions when I come into contact with them.
An example of this:
I meet someone for the first time and I am with them for an extended period of time. I will start to think certain thoughts about myself that I either don't believe or are feelings I've had in the past, but are not currently feeling about myself. So let's say this person is worried about being fat, It wont be instant, but if I spend enough time with them, once I leave contact with them I will become extremely insecure about my weight, even if I'm not.
It translates to everything, Job, life path, looks and any fear under the sun, I leave feeling all these emotions. I sometimes feel deep deep depression and have miserable thoughts that I know I don't truly feel about myself. Its quite uncomfortable and has been affecting my life for quite some time, I have just recently(within the last year) started to become aware of it.
This issue also translates to physical pain also. When I talk or hangout with my brother I get pain in my left hamstring and chest. My sister's boyfriend, his back. I was having a lot of pain in my lower back , then I recently found out my boss was pregnant. Just things like that , all the time.
I understand it's a gift, but it seems that I don't have very good control over it or am able to help the people that I am feeling. It seems like I only get(or am allowing) the negative stuff that everyone has . This is starting to affect my relationships with people as it makes me not want to be around the people that are affecting me in such negative ways(just about everyone).
I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to control this type of thing, so I can begin to feel my own emotions and be able to help translate others pain to them.
Any advice would help, thanks